Since 2008, Pluto has been journeying through Capricorn, a transit that has pushed many of us to face some of the most profound lessons of our lives. Pluto, the planet of transformation, death, and rebirth, is not subtle in its teachings. It digs deep, exposing hidden truths, forcing us to confront what lies beneath the surface, and compelling us to let go of anything that no longer serves our highest good. Capricorn, the steadfast and disciplined sign of structure and authority, has amplified these themes, pushing us to redefine boundaries, face hard truths, and step into our personal power.
One of the most crucial lessons of Pluto’s time in Capricorn is learning to accept when someone shows you who they truly are—and understanding when to let go. This is not about making snap judgments or cutting people out at the first sign of difficulty. It is about recognizing patterns of behavior, listening to your intuition, and embracing the lesson they came into your life to teach.
The Power of Pluto: Transformation Through Truth
Pluto’s energy is one of transformation, and transformation cannot occur without truth. During Pluto’s transit through Capricorn, we are confronted with the reality of who people are at their core. This period has exposed deceit, manipulation, and power struggles, both in the world around us and in our personal lives. It has also shown us the value of integrity, authenticity, and unwavering commitment to our true selves.
When someone shows you who they are—whether it’s through betrayal, dishonesty, or actions that speak louder than words—Pluto’s influence pushes you to see it clearly. There is no room for denial or pretending in Pluto’s realm. It demands that we acknowledge the truth, no matter how painful, and make choices that align with our soul’s evolution.
Why Cutting Ties is Necessary for Growth
Letting go is never easy, especially when it involves people who have played significant roles in our lives. But holding onto relationships or connections that continually show us they are rooted in deceit, manipulation, or harm stunts our growth. Pluto in Capricorn has taught us that clinging to what no longer serves us—out of fear, comfort, or the hope that things will change—only prolongs the suffering.
Cutting ties is an act of self-respect and an acknowledgment that your energy and well-being are sacred. When someone shows you who they truly are, and that truth disrupts your peace and authenticity, it is a sign from the universe to release them and move forward. This isn’t about anger or resentment; it’s about understanding that not everyone is meant to stay, and their exit is part of the lesson.
Recognizing the Lesson They Taught You
Every person who enters our life brings with them a lesson, a gift of growth. The hardest part of this journey is understanding that the most painful relationships are often the ones that teach us the most. These connections hold up a mirror, showing us where we need to set stronger boundaries, trust ourselves more, or stop compromising our values.
When someone shows you who they are, it’s an opportunity to ask:
• What did this relationship teach me about myself?
• What boundaries did I need to establish that I overlooked?
• How can I trust my intuition more in the future?
By reflecting on these questions, you can find gratitude in the lesson, even if the relationship itself was painful. It shifts the perspective from “Why did this happen to me?” to “What did this teach me for my journey forward?”
Pluto’s Gift: Rebirth and Empowerment
Pluto’s lessons are never easy, but they are transformative. When you take the courageous step of releasing those who have shown their true nature and do not align with your well-being, you create space for your rebirth. Capricorn’s influence during this transit urges you to rebuild on stronger, more authentic foundations. It is a call to stand in your power, anchored in the knowledge of who you are and what you deserve.
As Pluto prepares to leave Capricorn on November 18 and enter Aquarius, a new chapter of transformation awaits. Aquarius, the sign of innovation, freedom, and collective consciousness, will invite us to shift our focus from personal power structures to broader, collective healing and progress. This transition will challenge us to integrate the lessons we have learned over the past 15 years and apply them to a more expansive, community-centered perspective.
Letting Go Before the Shift
Before this transition takes place, it’s essential to close the cycles that have defined Pluto’s time in Capricorn. Letting go doesn’t mean you didn’t care, and it doesn’t erase the history shared. It simply acknowledges that your growth, peace, and spiritual path are more important than holding onto what diminishes them. It is about reclaiming your energy, allowing yourself to heal, and moving forward with greater clarity and strength.
A Personal Note from Me
As I reflect on Pluto’s powerful lessons since 2008, I can’t help but acknowledge the profound truths I’ve faced about the people in my life and myself. I’ve learned that seeing someone for who they truly are can be painful, especially when their reality doesn’t match who I hoped they would be. This year, in particular, has shaken me to the core of my being. I’ve experienced betrayal, lies, deception, abandonment, and profound loss. Yet, through it all, I’ve also come to know true unconditional love. These experiences have shown me that one of the greatest lessons for my spiritual development and evolution is to trust myself, to heal, and to rise again.
This journey has taught me that letting go is not an act of abandonment; it’s an act of self-love. It’s a recognition that my soul’s growth and peace come first and that every person who has come and gone has brought with them a lesson that shapes who I am today.
If you find yourself struggling to release someone or something that no longer aligns with your path, remember that Pluto’s lessons are here to empower you. Trust that by choosing yourself and cutting ties when necessary, you are embracing the transformative power of this energy and aligning with your highest self.
With love and gratitude!,
Michelle